When we lose people we love, we dont morn the past, we mourn un-lived tomorrows. We mourn the loss of the person who loved you with all their heart. We mourn the future memories that will never be made with our loved-one.

Take all the time you need to heal from your grief. Those that love you will sit with you through the storm.

The reality of grief is that it will never leave. It hurts because it matters.

In the end it all comes down to this; there's never as much time as you think.

I will never be satisfied with the years we had together.
It should have been more.
I needed it to be more.
I will always wish that it was more.
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A BROKEN HEART •
How do I mend a broken heart?
My entire world has fallen apart.
How do I find hope in a brand new day,
when the one I love has gone away?
My mind overflows with memories of you,
of all that we've shared, all that we knew.
I long for your touch and your warm embrace,
the look in your eyes, the smile on your face.
My dreams are filled with your soft gentle kiss.
I wake and cry for all that I miss.
How do I mend a broken heart,
when my one true love and I are apart?

My heart knows to love only you, it won't let go, what do I do?
Our moments together were precious and few,
but I cherished them all more than you knew.
I love you, my angel, and always will.
I loved you then and I love you STILL.
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A LOVE THAT IS FOREVER •
We started with young love,
Amazed at how far that went.
I valued the time we had,
The good and bad moments spent.

Weathered through the storms,
Beat all kinds of odds.
I promise to keep your love with me,
Even when your spirit sits with God.

I love you forever,
A promise we both made.
Now that you're gone and I'm here,
I'll keep your love for the rest of my days.

Forever is forever,
Even if I'm here alone.
Your love reigns in my heart,
Even though you're really gone.

I love you.
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TEARS ON MY PILLOW •
Tears on my pillow,
I can't count how many I've cried.
I feel so awfully hollow,
Almost like it's me that died.

How long will I feel so empty,
Will this heartache ever end?
How long will I have to wait,
Until we meet in Heaven, my friend?
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I THOUGHT WE HAD MORE TIME •
I thought we had more time,
But I know now I was wrong.

If I could see you one more time,
See your much-loved face.
If only I could tell you thanks
And feel your sweet embrace.

I can say I love you in my heart,
But it's just not the same.
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The Hidden Shame of Romantic Heartbreak:
Painful memories and unexpected opportunities •
Posted April 1, 2022
• The problem of heartbreak resides within our memories.
Heartache is a way that humanity experiences the separation of the self from the other. When the unity of love is interrupted or ended we may become acutely aware of our vulnerability. Romantic separation can be considered an ambiguous loss since the person who is gone still exists among us. We may experience grief not only for the person we loved and lost but also for the fantasy of who we had thought or hoped the other could be. Love based on fantasy is often subject to the uncertainty that eventually accompanies it.
Heartbreaking Memories
The problem of heartbreak resides within our memories of emotional attachment to the person we lost. Exciting and enjoyable memories coupled with the anguish of loss keep the heartbroken person in pain. What haunts those who grieve from lost love is the ghost of everything good; their memories of desire and fulfillment. Distressing, angry, or bittersweet memories may temporarily hold positive memories at bay, but they represent our continued attachment. Negative emotions like anger, disappointment, or disgust do not signal the absence of love since all emotions make us care. Thus, to love is to care—to be emotionally invested in the other either positively or negatively. Indeed, the opposite of love is indifference.
The intensity of romantic heartbreak is roughly equivalent between men and women (Morris and Reiber, 201).
As humans, we have a capacity to recover from the wounds of heartache, but our memory system, which evolution designed to protect our future choices, does not seem to let us forget. Our brain actively engages with images of a remembered past.
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When we lose people we love, we dont morn the past, we mourn un-lived tomorrows. We mourn the loss of the person who loved you with all their heart. We mourn the future memories that will never be made with our loved-one.

Take all the time you need to heal from your grief. Those that love you will sit with you through the storm.

The reality of grief is that it will never leave. It hurts because it matters.

In the end it all comes down to this; there's never as much time as you think.

I will never be satisfied with the years we had together.
It should have been more.
I needed it to be more.
I will always wish that it was more.
____________ೋღ☃ღೋ____________
A BROKEN HEART •
How do I mend a broken heart?
My entire world has fallen apart.
How do I find hope in a brand new day,
when the one I love has gone away?
My mind overflows with memories of you,
of all that we've shared, all that we knew.
I long for your touch and your warm embrace,
the look in your eyes, the smile on your face.
My dreams are filled with your soft gentle kiss.
I wake and cry for all that I miss.
How do I mend a broken heart,
when my one true love and I are apart?

My heart knows to love only you, it won't let go, what do I do?
Our moments together were precious and few,
but I cherished them all more than you knew.
I love you, my angel, and always will.
I loved you then and I love you STILL.
____________ೋღ☃ღೋ____________
A LOVE THAT IS FOREVER •
We started with young love,
Amazed at how far that went.
I valued the time we had,
The good and bad moments spent.

Weathered through the storms,
Beat all kinds of odds.
I promise to keep your love with me,
Even when your spirit sits with God.

I love you forever,
A promise we both made.
Now that you're gone and I'm here,
I'll keep your love for the rest of my days.

Forever is forever,
Even if I'm here alone.
Your love reigns in my heart,
Even though you're really gone.

I love you.
____________ೋღ☃ღೋ____________
TEARS ON MY PILLOW •
Tears on my pillow,
I can't count how many I've cried.
I feel so awfully hollow,
Almost like it's me that died.

How long will I feel so empty,
Will this heartache ever end?
How long will I have to wait,
Until we meet in Heaven, my friend?
____________ೋღ☃ღೋ____________
I THOUGHT WE HAD MORE TIME •
I thought we had more time,
But I know now I was wrong.

If I could see you one more time,
See your much-loved face.
If only I could tell you thanks
And feel your sweet embrace.

I can say I love you in my heart,
But it's just not the same.
____________ೋღ☃ღೋ____________
The Hidden Shame of Romantic Heartbreak:
Painful memories and unexpected opportunities •
Posted April 1, 2022
• The problem of heartbreak resides within our memories.
Heartache is a way that humanity experiences the separation of the self from the other. When the unity of love is interrupted or ended we may become acutely aware of our vulnerability. Romantic separation can be considered an ambiguous loss since the person who is gone still exists among us. We may experience grief not only for the person we loved and lost but also for the fantasy of who we had thought or hoped the other could be. Love based on fantasy is often subject to the uncertainty that eventually accompanies it.
Heartbreaking Memories
The problem of heartbreak resides within our memories of emotional attachment to the person we lost. Exciting and enjoyable memories coupled with the anguish of loss keep the heartbroken person in pain. What haunts those who grieve from lost love is the ghost of everything good; their memories of desire and fulfillment. Distressing, angry, or bittersweet memories may temporarily hold positive memories at bay, but they represent our continued attachment. Negative emotions like anger, disappointment, or disgust do not signal the absence of love since all emotions make us care. Thus, to love is to care—to be emotionally invested in the other either positively or negatively. Indeed, the opposite of love is indifference.
The intensity of romantic heartbreak is roughly equivalent between men and women (Morris and Reiber, 201).
As humans, we have a capacity to recover from the wounds of heartache, but our memory system, which evolution designed to protect our future choices, does not seem to let us forget. Our brain actively engages with images of a remembered past.
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