Why I do this, After the loss of my Brother (Donald Habener), I was lost.
He died with liver disease, he was addicted to sugar and lots of carbs.
Never drank or smoked, but had diabetes, and never would give it up.
if he walked in the door, you would find he had candy in one of his pockets,
when he would come in the door, he would go straight to the dinner table's
candy dish.
At 65 years old, I went to his hospital room and squeeze his arm, and I could feel his presents, on the last day I visited him, I grabbed his are, and felt no connection.
At that time I knew he had left me, the next day they decided to disconnect him from
life support. Everyone said he was still alive, but I knew better.
Now for me I cut all sugar and carbs. as much as I can. which leads me to this cemetery Rose Hill cemetery in Chickasha Oklahoma, I walk everyday here.
I look at all the graves, leave pennies on the soldiers graves, their life and death dates. and move on to the others here.
I met a man (Lamont at Large) we walked and talked, after that I started a Facebook page (Chickasha Rose Hill Cemetery Guardian).
Then I started a Youtube page, and have made some videos.
This gives me solace and reflection, my brothers married family creamated him, and erased everything he was, I have nothing bad to say about cremation, it's what they did with him. No one deserves to be erased.
Now I was asked why I don't help out with Find-a-Grave, so here I am, now a volunteer.
I normally walk 5 miles per day in Rose Hill, so doing this makes me happy to help others.
My thing is, visit your loved one's that have left us behind, Visit them often.
It will bring you peace and well being.

Why I do this, After the loss of my Brother (Donald Habener), I was lost.
He died with liver disease, he was addicted to sugar and lots of carbs.
Never drank or smoked, but had diabetes, and never would give it up.
if he walked in the door, you would find he had candy in one of his pockets,
when he would come in the door, he would go straight to the dinner table's
candy dish.
At 65 years old, I went to his hospital room and squeeze his arm, and I could feel his presents, on the last day I visited him, I grabbed his are, and felt no connection.
At that time I knew he had left me, the next day they decided to disconnect him from
life support. Everyone said he was still alive, but I knew better.
Now for me I cut all sugar and carbs. as much as I can. which leads me to this cemetery Rose Hill cemetery in Chickasha Oklahoma, I walk everyday here.
I look at all the graves, leave pennies on the soldiers graves, their life and death dates. and move on to the others here.
I met a man (Lamont at Large) we walked and talked, after that I started a Facebook page (Chickasha Rose Hill Cemetery Guardian).
Then I started a Youtube page, and have made some videos.
This gives me solace and reflection, my brothers married family creamated him, and erased everything he was, I have nothing bad to say about cremation, it's what they did with him. No one deserves to be erased.
Now I was asked why I don't help out with Find-a-Grave, so here I am, now a volunteer.
I normally walk 5 miles per day in Rose Hill, so doing this makes me happy to help others.
My thing is, visit your loved one's that have left us behind, Visit them often.
It will bring you peace and well being.