If I happen to put up a grave of your ancestor, of course you can have it! And if it's someone you knew and loved, I'm deeply sorry for your loss.

Outside of find a grave, I have a life with real meaning, and I don't need to take my self-concept from hoarding tens of thousands of strangers' names here, that I've merely taken off cemetery listings made by others who did the careful walking through the mud and writing down, long before there were computers. I've been a genealogist since 1976 and have traveled a lot of miles and walked a lot of graves and paid for a lot of copies of records. But it's all yours if you ask, because that's just the kind of person I am. :)

If I happen to put up a grave of your ancestor, of course you can have it! And if it's someone you knew and loved, I'm deeply sorry for your loss.

Outside of find a grave, I have a life with real meaning, and I don't need to take my self-concept from hoarding tens of thousands of strangers' names here, that I've merely taken off cemetery listings made by others who did the careful walking through the mud and writing down, long before there were computers. I've been a genealogist since 1976 and have traveled a lot of miles and walked a lot of graves and paid for a lot of copies of records. But it's all yours if you ask, because that's just the kind of person I am. :)