If someone passes, please give the family member of the deceased time to enter their OWN loved one into Find a Grave. Reading Obits, then entering them before anyone else doesn't make you more popular, or a better person. It's unprofessional and emotionally terrorizing to the family who may have wanted the emotional right and need of entering their loved one in this site. After being a member for many years, I was traumatized by "well meaning people" on the day before my loved one's funeral. Then I was called a "Bully" because I called her out in public. Please remember this advice as it is the right thing to do. Respectfully yours......

If someone passes, please give the family member of the deceased time to enter their OWN loved one into Find a Grave. Reading Obits, then entering them before anyone else doesn't make you more popular, or a better person. It's unprofessional and emotionally terrorizing to the family who may have wanted the emotional right and need of entering their loved one in this site. After being a member for many years, I was traumatized by "well meaning people" on the day before my loved one's funeral. Then I was called a "Bully" because I called her out in public. Please remember this advice as it is the right thing to do. Respectfully yours......