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Dirk Alan Shafer

Birth: 7 Nov 1962
Carbondale, Jackson County, Illinois, USA
Death: 5 Mar 2015 (aged 52)
West Hollywood, Los Angeles County, California, USA
Burial: Hollywood Forever

Hollywood, Los Angeles County, California, USA Show Map GPS-Latitude: 34.0885085, Longitude: -118.3168169
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Dirk Shafer, a former Playgirl magazine centerfold who chronicled his experiences as a closeted gay man in a 1995 mock documentary, “Man of the Year,” was found dead on Thursday in West Hollywood, Calif. He was 52.

Craig Harvey, a spokesman for the Los Angeles County medical examiner’s office, said Mr. Shafer was discovered in the front passenger seat of his car on a residential street. The cause of death had not been determined, he said, adding that there was no evidence of trauma or drug or alcohol use.

Mr. Shafer, who posed nude in a series of pictorials in Playgirl, was named the magazine’s “Man of the Year” in 1992. He also wrote, directed and starred in films that were popular at gay film festivals.

“Man of the Year,” a fictionalized version of his life story, explores the tension of being a closeted gay man who is a sex symbol for straight women. The film was a public coming-out of sorts for Mr. Shafer, and his nude modeling career slowed in its wake.

In a review in The New York Times, Stephen Holden wrote that the film “gleefully sabotages the notion that sex objects are sacred objects.”

He added: “On a deeper level, ‘Man of the Year’ treats Mr. Shafer’s modeling experience as a metaphor for the way society pressures gay people to act straight. After watching Mr. Shafer wriggle uncomfortably inside the role he has agreed to play, it comes as a relief when he finally abandons it.”

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Memorial service for Dirk Alan Shafer will be 3:00 p.m. Saturday, March 28, 2015, at the Mayflower Congregational Church, 3901 N. W. 63rd Street, Oklahoma City.

Dirk Alan Shafer was born November 7, 1962, in Carbondale, Illinois, and died suddenly in Los Angeles, California, on March 5, 2015.

He graduated from the University of Oklahoma School of Journalism and moved to Los Angeles to follow his dream. He pursued acting and directing, was a model, screenwriter, and personal trainer. Dirk wrote and directed two ground breaking movies. He lived in Los Angeles 29 years.

He was preceded in death by his brother, Dickie; and his grandparents, Carl and Anna Belle Shafer, and Luella Ake.

Dirk is survived by his mother, Patsy Glass; his father, David Shafer and wife, Karen; his sister, Deidra Kistler and husband, Brandon; nephews, Fain and Ewing Kistler; numerous aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends.

Memorial contributions may be made through the funeral home to the Northwestern Oklahoma State University Foundation Shafer Family Scholarship or the Oklahoma University School of Journalism.

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